The pair 'a complex system consisting of two individuals who have their own identity', relationship, job, friendships, and habits that are influenced by the environment.
There 'is a case in particular that triggers a crisis and there is not a precise moment when this happens, it happens sometimes that's all.
As we explained at the conference Dr. Lucia Portella, often you get to a crisis, a breakdown, a betrayal not understand their reason.
The crisis is not, however, never determined by a single event, but a combination of factors which, over time, leading to light a series of problems and often lead people to consult a competent professional to shed light on possible causes .
In many cases, the crisis is triggered by a change in the lives of one or both of the individuals that make up the pair. The change of job or a promotion, motherhood ', the decision to live together and be aware of habits and defects of the other may in fact be the root cause.
There is no real rule to prevent the crisis [in fact, is often not at all well to prevent it. The crisis is indeed a natural process of evolution of the pair and as such represents an opportunity, if well managed, rather than a danger! Editor's note], but you can follow some basic principles to be 'that this will be resolved. For example, to maintain and respect the diversity 'of the other component of the pair, accept the moments of success of the other, be open to the external environment and not to turn in a world of "two", meet and attend other colleagues and generally try to be participatory and informed of its work and again, express willingness to accept each other the changes that will necessarily happen at different stages of married life.
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There 'is a case in particular that triggers a crisis and there is not a precise moment when this happens, it happens sometimes that's all.
As we explained at the conference Dr. Lucia Portella, often you get to a crisis, a breakdown, a betrayal not understand their reason.
The crisis is not, however, never determined by a single event, but a combination of factors which, over time, leading to light a series of problems and often lead people to consult a competent professional to shed light on possible causes .
In many cases, the crisis is triggered by a change in the lives of one or both of the individuals that make up the pair. The change of job or a promotion, motherhood ', the decision to live together and be aware of habits and defects of the other may in fact be the root cause.
There is no real rule to prevent the crisis [in fact, is often not at all well to prevent it. The crisis is indeed a natural process of evolution of the pair and as such represents an opportunity, if well managed, rather than a danger! Editor's note], but you can follow some basic principles to be 'that this will be resolved. For example, to maintain and respect the diversity 'of the other component of the pair, accept the moments of success of the other, be open to the external environment and not to turn in a world of "two", meet and attend other colleagues and generally try to be participatory and informed of its work and again, express willingness to accept each other the changes that will necessarily happen at different stages of married life.
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